Well as some of you know we were expecting a new baby. We didn't know what we were having.
WE HAD A BOY!!
Our 4th child but our 1st boy. When they showed me he was a boy, I was filled with joy but fear as well. He is now a month old and is doing amazing. The first couple weeks I was still in awe that I have a boy and did A LOT of reading about baby boys. I learned so much in such a little amount of time. I am still learning, but feel more confident with having a boy now. It is a big change for me as the last boy diaper I changed was my little cousin Tyler which was more then 10 years ago. Most of my friends had girls too, so never needed to change a boys bottom.
Anyways, as some of you have asked how the delivery was I thought I'd share a little.
We were due on the the Tuesday and everyone kept telling me baby is coming soon. On Wednesday my work invited me to the secretary dinner and my boss informed me I was going to go in labour on Thursday. I laughed and told her. 'I don't think so it will happen by induction I bet'. So Thursday day hubby took me to lunch and didn't let me do a lot of sitting around that day. I was trying to finish up some spring dresses my girls had requested. When they home from school we said we'd take them to the park so they could ride their bikes. We walked over to their school park and let them play, our middle one neede to go pee so Daddy left me alone at the park with the other two and took her home to go pee. Right when he left I felt a tummy pain, which I ignored as just having to got to the bathroom pain, then just as I saw him returning (about 15 minutes later) I got another tummy pain, but this one more so. I told him about them and we told the girls 15 more minutes then we neto go home. I proceeded to walk to the other climber, which my youngest had run to, when I felt a pull in my lower stomac. I froze, must of shown a face cause hubby came running to me asking if I was okay. I reassured him I was fine just a weird feeling. then I took a step, felt a little wet, and said, " I think I peed myself a little" he laughed and said "okay, we will go home so you can change." Instantly it gushed out. I never had a pregnancy where my water broke fully. I said, "Um nope my water broke, yep my water broke, im soaked, we need to go home" He gathered the girls as I started the walk home, with soaking wet pants and shoes, leaving little feet trails as I walk.
I knew I wasn't having contraction and didn't need any medication or anything but still wanted to go to hospital to make sure everything was okay. We went, they didn't believe me that my water broke, until they did test. My contractions were inconsistent and said I they were to busy to move my labour along so wanted me to wait till it had been 12 hours since water broke. I was fine with that and went home. Layed in bed while hubby got lunches and school bags together for kids for their grandmother to get them to school in the morning. By the middle of the night I had to go to the bathroom and that's when it started. I new I was having contractions but didn't tell hubby. He started checking on me and timing them. Being the pain that I am I didn't tell him everytime I had one. I wanted to wait till I felt they were strong enough to in to the hospital. I called hospital when I felt they were close enough and they told me to come on down.
The trip from the car to the hospital bed took a while as I wanted to walk up. I remember telling hubby how nervous I was to go into labour again. It has been 5 years since last child. He reassured me that I was a pro at it and would do great, he had no worries. When we got to labour and delivery he told them the information. The nurse didn't believe I was in labour that close cause I was walking but said they'd check me out and see. Sure enough I was having major contractions, she couldn't believe I wasn't screaming or saying anything and still walking around. She had a resident check to see how far I was, which was 5 cm. So they moved me into a delivery room. It was only a couple hours later and he was born.
I don't remember a lot of the time as I just focused on breathing through contractions and stay relaxed. I think my favourite thing was opening my eyes to see hubby falling asleep and telling him to wake up and then the next time I saw him falling asleep my body threw up on him. The one nurse was making me drink water constantly so I wasn't dehydrated. well it went all of daddy to be. I kept apologizing to him, as I didn't mean to, and he said, "stop apologizing, I get the hint, don't fall asleep"
Anyways that's my labour story. I was longest time in labour out of the 4, but the hard labour was only about 20 minutes. It was all worth it to have my little boy now!!